Magdalene Enoh

Dear Bessem and family,

On the behalf of our entire family, know that our thoughts are with you. I write this to encourage you and to let you know it will be well. No words can express my concern for the pain and anguish that you must be experiencing right now. Not so long ago, I too sat in your position. It is hard and there are no words to comfort. But I pray that knowing that your mom knew the Lord should be a source of comfort, I hope. Remember to praise the Lord for her salvation. I pray that the Lord will guide you through this challenging time, may he be your strength, grant you wisdom and comfort you in ways that only HE can.  I pray for journey mercies for you all. Don't be afraid to call on HIM now and always- even in those darkest moments, seek him.

God Bless you!

Liz

I knew you before we met. You were introduced to me and described by your dear sister-in-law, my mommy / big sis./ friend, Auntie Bache, as... sweet, gentle, soft-spoken, coy, intently religious, a good friend, a dedicated loving wife and a wonderful mother. These characteristics were glaringly obvious when I finally met you. From our initial contact through a phone conversation inquiring about planning a wedding in the US, to our frequent encounter the weeks leading up to and the days during our annual EXSSA-USA convention in Houston, Texas, your soothing nature permeated every time. Your words were always encouraging and your views optimistic...never a dull moment around you. Your sudden departure has imprinted an emotional wound in the hearts of many. Although we mourn that you've left us, we do so as Christians, knowing that you are resting comfortably with the Lord. I bought the straw hats you requested to “do your show-show” at the EXSSA  AGM in Cameroon later this year. However, God wanted you to wear His heavenly crown as you majestically enter His kingdom. So, sweet Auntie Meg as the pearly gates swing open to welcome you, may your presence in God's kingdom enhance the gingles present therein. We remain at peace amidst our gloom especially after Auntie Bache's “revelation that came from a very very broken heart,” which assures us that yes your time with us on earth was indeed up. We will miss you, but we will let you go. Rest in peace until we meet again.

Marie Takusi-Njowo (Auntie Ma)

Houston, Texas.

It was quite a shock to hear about Meg's sudden departure.

I just want to say ashia and take heart. Hold strong to your faith and trust God. He is always in control.

May God grant you the strength and grace to overcome the pain you're feeling now.

No matter the situation give thanks for Meg's life and what you shared together for the scripture says in everything give thanks.

God bless you

Dear Bessem, Ashu, Agei and Mbei,

It is hard for me to be in loss of words, but I am! I had the privilege and pleasure of meeting your mom during Bessem's graduation from Pharm School in CT 6 years ago. I found her to be a very warm woman and mother and had a sense of humour that was very appealing and warm. And, her sense of maternal instincts was just memorable and refreshing! I also know that Bessem is very close to her mom. Well, Bessem, Ashu, Mbei and Agei, I know what it means to lose a parent...I have been there! It is a difficult and reprehensible experience, to put it mildly. However, more than ever, you have to TRUST the Lord. His ways are NOT our ways.

While your family remain in our prayers here at home (CMR), know that if there is anything I can do to help with logistics here at home, DONT HESITATE to ask.

May auntie rest in the peace of the Lord. Amen.

I thank God for your life...a life well-lived. I thank God for your 'preparedness' to meet His call.
Understanding and wisdom come from God.  God endowed you with these qualities that have served you in good stead throughout your life. To quote from the Book of Wisdom (4th Chapter)..."length of days is not what makes age honorable, nor number of years the true measure of life; 
                                understanding, this is man's grey hairs; untarnished life, this is ripe old age".

 Rest in the bosom of the Lord, dear Meg, until we meet again.
                                           Sister Maryann

My dear Bessem, Agei and Ashu,

You have lost someone who was a special part of your family.

As the suddeness of her demise remains a senseless tragedy, may you all find comfort in the Lord, in each other and remain strong.

May God grant her eternal rest in that land of the golden Light  till we meet again!

In deepest sympathy.

Life is a book in volumes three-

The past, the present, and the yet-to-be

 The past is written and laid away,

The present we're writng every day,

And the last and best of volumes three

Is locked from- God Keeps the Key.

No matter what the tribulation

 You know He will see you through

So, when the road you're traveling on

Seems difficult at best.

Give your problems to the Lord and God will do the rest.

Trust in the Lord.

Have faith do not despair.

Trust in the lord.

Lots of Love

Esther

We want to stand very closely and firmly to The Enoh family during this difficult and terrible period of great loss of a key and founding member of this wonderful family.

Certainly not a loss to the Enoh family alone, but keeping track of her activities and  reading through her biography, one notices an ambitious Woman who never only excelled in education, and social networking, but was in a quest for more scientific sources of knowledge that could have benefited Cameroon as a whole. It is indeed a loss for Cameroon, but God is the one who makes the ultimate decisions.       

Thanks Bessem and Ashu Oben; for all the courage you have been showing and hard work you have been doing to help us be able to contain this great loss.   

 Roland Takang Oben (Canada)

Accept my deepest sympathy and may her soul RIP.

Lfe is a book in volumes three-

The past, the presnt, and the yet-to-be.

The past is written and laid away,

The present we're writing every day,

And the last and best of volumes three

Is locked from-GOD KEEPS THE KEY-

No matter what the tribulation

You know He will see you through

Seems difficult at best.

Give your problems to the Lord and God will do the rest.

Trust in the Lord

Have faith,do not despair.

Trust in the Lord.

 Lots of Love

 Esther

Dear Bessem,

My sincere condolences. I wish I could be there with you as you go through this very difficult period in your life but more than anything else I pray the Lord gives you the strength to deal with this.

I thank God that He let mum come and spend time with you before taking her away. Focus on the beautiful memories you have, hold on to them and slowly you'll find that you can smile and not cry when you think of her. Rest assured that she's in a good place and you'll see her again.

Be strong my dear!!

Dearest Bessem and Cathy,

                                     My heart goes out to you and your entire family in this time of sudden loss. I pray that the Good Lord grants you strength and courage to overcome this tragedy. You may ask yourselves a million questions why this had to happen but rest assured, God knows best and will surely heal your wounds with time. May aunty Meg's kindness and fond memories you all shared be a great comfort to you and May God grand her eternal rest. Her good deeds and "joie de vivre" will surely be remembered here on earth.

Mes condoleances!!!

Becky La Reine, Class of 93.

Dear Agei

Take Courage, the lord is with you through this fire & storm of life, our prayers are with you and the family in these trying times.

Be Strong

Gabila

      May the peace of the Lord that passes all understanding be and continue to remain with you during these challenging times and always. We shall continue to keep you and your entire family in our prayers.

                   CHARLES EKOKO for Pa John and Ma Emilia Ekoko, Arah, Emily, Bako, Paulette Ekoko, the rest of the Ekoko, Abange and Foletia Family.

         Charles Ekoko

     2109 waterleaf way

    Bowie Md 20721.

Uncle John, Bess, Mbei and Agei, 

                     We know these are very very trying times..But remember for to Live is Christ and to Die is Gain.. We know that aunty Meg lived a wonderful life on earth and she wouldn't have left if she wasnt ready to meet our ultimate father.  Our prayer is that may the Lord Almighty who called His wonderful daughter home, grant your family the strength to go through these very trying times.  We are still very shocked at the sudden departure of aunty Meg but we know that she is shining down on us from heaven...We will always remember her radiant smile. Please take heart and leave everything up to God. He will take care of the rest. Our deepest sympathy.

Dear Bess,

We rejoice because mum is with Jesus in Heaven! One day we shall meet her again, never to part! As I see her beutiful smile in the picture, I know she will always be smiling down at us! 

My prayer is that God will give you the grace to stand strong during this time and may the Holy Spirit comfort you and keep you throughout the days ahead!

Lots of Love,

Kate

Oh Bessem. I am at my desk crying once again. I feel your agony, frustration, pain and overwhelming sadness.  I know that no matter how much you think you’ll be prepared when the time comes…..it’s always absolutely devastating. I want you to know that you have a special angel in heaven now watching over you. Just hold your other little sweethearts next to you and let them help you heal.

Mbei and Agei….I imagine the pain you feel but I want you to know that Mama is only resting in the Lord. No words can express how much a part of your life your mum was and will always be. I know you’re both strong. Please be strong for Bessem and your dad. My heart goes out to you in this time of sorrow and I pray that you find comfort in the Lord.

Uncle John…..I felt your pain during the few times I’ve been to the house after your wife’s passing. I always wanted to say something to ease your pain but I know there is nothing that can possibly be said to ease your aching heart now. That is why I only just stared at you. Please do not be sad or lonely….just know that even though death took your dear wife so unexpectedly, you and the kids all made her proud.

Aunty Meg, I know you can hear me. Cos I know you’re only resting in the Lord. I remember so well the last time I saw you……at your first grand son’s Baptism. Yes aunty..as always you had that lovely smile on your face when I hugged you. Little did I know I was seeing you for the last time…. God saw the pain you were going through before you finally gave up….He put His arms around you and said “Come to me” I know you are now in heaven waiting on us till we meet again. RIP!

 Many thoughts and prayers your way.

Aunty Meg,

You left us memories, we are proud to own. God took you in his loving arms. He saw you needed rest. His garden must be colourful and beautiful, For He only takes the best.  May your soul find sweet rest in Heavenly places.

Mbei, Ndip and Agei,

Although it is impossible to see beyond your pain, may we look back to good memories to comfort and strengthen you today and int he days ahead. May God's peace illuminate your hearts.

Tons of Love, Wase

Dear Besem,

               Please accept my heartfelt sympathy for the loss of your Mom; 
              Without a shadow of a doubt ,the only consolation i have to share is  that  i know she is
             in the most beautiful place that no human mind can ever fathom (Heaven ).

Thank you for having me chat with her on the phone and i remember her pushing her panel to grant me that famous FEMSA prize. She remains a gentle and kind-hearted figure in my memory .
  Here is my little  prayer for you and your family;
     "May the Holy Spirit comfort and heal your hearts during this time in Jesus name"

No more Sorrow, No more Pain for Aunty Meg and i know we shall meet again someday if we all confess and believe the Scripture of her life: Romans 10:9 "If you confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved".

  classof9597:We  love you and we care;
    Christie Agbor
       Sparks, Nevada

Bess,May the Lord Almighty grant you Grace and Strength as you face this period and may God's divine wisdom be granted by him to you so that you'll rely totally on the Holy Spirit who is  your comforter.May Aunty Meg's soul rest in perfect peace.

I know the Lord Almighty will heal the wound in ur heart faster than you can imagine.

God Bless